I found out my boyfriend has an account on fling.com is this just another porn site or is it real?

Question by Cerenity: I found out my boyfriend has an account on fling.com is this just another porn site or is it real?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years we have a house together and are getting married in April 2012. I know hes into porn which doesn’t phase me as long as we have a good sex life. Recently, though I found out he has an account on fling.com. Not one that you pay for where you can actually contact people but the free trial offer one that you can go on and look a pics and videos. I went on there under his username and password via his email and he has it set so noone can message or contact him. Should I bring this up is there a need to worry or is this just a site that he is watching porn on? We are pretty open with eachother I know hes not cheating because obviously we live together and I know what he does pretty much all the time. But, is this site set up for actual relations with other people or is it just a porn site? How can I find out I’ve tried signing up and searching for him to see if I could send out some bait but its nearly impossible to narrow a search on there. He has no friends and hasnt sent any friend requests on there or messages but hes gotta a long string of emails from fling.com saying this girl has sent you her nude pics or this girl wants to meet you. I’ve followed some of the links and it basically goes to a credit card app saying you have to be a gold member. Should I let this go or do you think hes trying to do more that get aroused by nude pics here?

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Answer by Cookie
It sounds like you and your boyfriend are very close and in love together, so please don’t try to destroy it with your paranoia

Here’s a few things about internet stuff:
1) When you make an account, 99% of people don’t bother deleting it because it’s such a hassle.
2) You keep recieving emails from them
3) Time to time, you may go online and ‘look’, but not because you want to…. mostly because it’s just THERE and you click it for no reason…

Chances are, his account is just old, dusty and building up lots of junk. I sincerely doubt that he’s actively looking at these things… especially since you live together.

I mean how much time does he have to do it realistically anyway?

Good luck

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