Is It just me or Im I right to feel this way!!! Please help me!!!!!?

Question by .: Is It just me or Im I right to feel this way!!! Please help me!!!!!?
Am I just over reacting????
I have been chatting with this guy for 3mouths and his in the Army so his over in Iraq we met on face book and were always chatting and Im always telling him that Im here if he needs a friend to chat with because he sounded upset and lonely and were from the same country but lately his been acting a little strange and his acting more of a boyfriend then a friend because he always calls me baby and he said thinking of you baby and I cant wait to come home baby he asked me out for coffee and I said that was cool because I like him but I want to met him in person before I say anything like that and Im going to take a friend with me just to be safe since I haven’t met him yet but the thing is he lives in another state then me but he said that his mum lives were I live so he said that he would like to see me since his in the area I said that was cool and that I would like that a lot but I noticed that he had a lot of woman friends and these woman look really easy because they put up these half naked photos of them and they are always saying naughty things to him& joking around with him and Im not like that Im a Good girl ..I know that they are from other countries so I know that I have a better chance with him but he then sent me an Email asking if I were cool with drinks? And he asked how old I was because he forgot but now Im not sure what his up too??? am I just over reacting or am I right to feel worried please be honest and were the same age 21 thank YOU!!!

Best answer:

Answer by forestbythesea
You are right to be worried. If you gut is telling you something ain’t right, listen to it. I’m not sure about meeting someone you met on line but if you can take a friend, or find out some more about him before meeting for COFFEE, not drinks. Just trust your intuition. My boyfriend was in Iraq and it does get pretty lonely. But when he comes back, jumping into a relationship isn’t that healthy for him or you. Most suffer from depression or post traumatic stress syndrome, so if you didn’t know him before he want over, you will have no way of knowing what is going on in his head. Good luck!!!

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