Question by Diego: My girlfriend is pregnant but say she has lost he sex drive but is watching porn online in private?
My Girlfriend is pregnant and doesnt want to have sex with me and claims she has no sex drive but i can see that she has been watching porn online when we are not together.Is she lying to me and is simply not in love attracted to me?? It really bothers me because I think she is lying and just stringing me along?
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Answer by ღ35 ωεεкş αℓσηgღвαвч♂due 3.18
Ok take it from a pregnant lady lol… When you get all big and tired and get contractions all the time, sex is not as fun for me like it use to be. Just give her space she needs its normal for her to act like that during pregnancy and it has nothing to do with you so don’t take it upon yourself. She may want to watch porn because its just quicker and easier for her. Just try to understand she does not feel as well and energetic as she used to, and maybe is embarrassed about watching porn that’s why shes not admitting it. Just try to understand her, a lot of changes are happening to her body now and some women just don’t want to have sex. I know it might be hard to understand for you but just please try.
Plus whenever I have sex now I get contractions and feel like crap so its not as enjoyable for me as it use to be. Not because my partner is not good enough or anything like that just because I don’t feel as well.
What do you think? Answer below!
maybe shes scared to actually have sex, maybe she thinks it might hurt the baby. talk to her about it.
Watching porn is completely different than wanting to actually engage in sex. Many pregnant woman prefer masturbation to actual intercourse while pregnant. The best thing to do is to speak with your girlfriend about your concerns. Maybe you can figure out ways to satisfy one another. Best of Luck!